Running with Reds
Join me as I journey through life as a mommy to a little red headed boy and four red australian shepherds and wife to an awesome hubby who can't say No. My addictions include distance running and training dogs (specifically in dog agility) and my job is in science so expect a dose of a little bit of all of these things. Running with reds is how I keep my sanity:)
Thursday, January 1, 2026
End of year post....Good bye 2025
Sunday, December 28, 2025
I need a break....Now
I knew this week would be a challenging one and I wasn't let down at all. We usually take this week at work to clean and get ready to hit the ground running for the new year. This year, we still had experiments that needed to be finished or just done, and we were all very stressed. We knew together we could get it all completed, but it was still a race to the finish line, and my experiment didn't really work 100 percent per se. Sigh. Eleven days off and it will be cherished as it is surely needed. I'm so ready for this break and also to spend some time with friends, both new and old. I'm also ready for a slowdown. NO medications to take, no practices to get to, no rush in the morning to down my coffee and read my emails and get myself and Andrew ready. Just slow and peaceful and easy. My soul needs this.
First, we celebrated our 20th year of marriage! We usually try to get to a fancy restaurant or something fun, but with me being sick and our schedules being crazy, it just didn't happen like we wanted. We decided that some good beer and some Hy-Vee deli take out was just fine this year and much cheaper. I love Manhattan Brewing company at this time of year as they decorate, and it feels so festive and fun.
Christmas was great as usual with our little family. We hit the jackpot on what Andrew wanted with the bass guitar Tony bought at the last minute being the best. I was really worried at first because I thought since he had picked out the majority of his Christmas ahead of time that he wouldn't be very excited. He was very specific in what Lego sets he wanted this year and picked them out ahead of time. He opened every present like he had no clue what was coming and made my momma heart happy, even showing excitement for clothing and underwear. Is he already done putting together all the Legos as I type this on Friday? Yes. Him and his dad are still battling on Atari, and we will be getting more games to play for sure. I feel like that was his biggest surprise and also the hardest one to master since playing with a joystick if foreign to this generation.
Tony and I decided to spend our money on our trip instead of each other, but I did get him some dog dad pants, and he got me some new KSU lavender.
Sunday, December 21, 2025
Twas the week before Christmas
Not again. We seem to have all caught the mess that Andrew had. While we never had a fever or caught it when we were feverish to test, we have had a massive head cold, all of us. SO much snot and coughing and tissues and lack of sleep. Plus, I had some cortisol dumpage around 3 am several mornings that woke me up and kept me up. Sigh. Let's get to it shall we?
Monday, December 15, 2025
NCKL and NOOOOOO!!!!
Andrew has missed two tournaments this year, I've seen such good things in the one he did make it to and all the matches he did. Wrestling is finally clicking for him and I LOVE it. Him and his partner both have really grown in their technique and that is all I want, growth and try. Unfortunately, Andrew started feeling bad on Monday of this week. A little congestion and a little dry hacky cough, just like before. We loaded him up with meds and prayed he could get through the week fever free and make his goal of varsity at NCKL. Tuesday night was his big band and choir concert, and he was for sure struggling but still fever free. By Wednesday morning, he had a 104-degree fever and major snot issues. URGH. Not again. We kept him home obviously, but by some grace of God, his fever broke mid-morning, and he was fever free the rest of the day. Thought about sending him Thursday so he could at least wrestle off for his position, but even fever free he felt like dog ass and there was NO way I was sending him feeling that badly. Coach graciously allowed him to come weigh in with a mask on and I am grateful that he did. That meant though no varsity for him, no wrestle off, no chance at ending on the Varsity team for the big dance, which was his goal all year. We've battled weight and insecurity the entire season, but we at least made it through and ended the year on his goal weight, and I am totally fine with hitting that goal if we missed the others. Heck, we all lost weight together adjusting our diets, and that is never a bad thing.
I wrote this on the book of faces but it's true here too so I'm just going to copy and paste LOL!
I feel this so strongly. I never knew what wrestling was before we moved to Kansas and now, I just pray he decides to go forward with wrestling in high school. We've seen such a transformation this year and I am here for it and want to see more! It's in there waiting and someday that athletic self will rise.
Okay enough about my kiddo :) I got three runs in this week and two work outs, so I hit my self-imposed target. I prayed all week to not catch this latest bug, and it worked (knocking on wood right now). I did almost hit the ground one run due to my dang flexible ankles turning. You know how when you bite the inside of your cheek and then turn around and do it again over and over in the same spot? Well, that is me with my dang ankles. This time I didn't go all the way down, but I seriously thought I had broken my ankle. Thank God I was talking to my mom on the phone, and she talked me through the pain. I was pretty sore the rest of the week and am still sore as I type this. My hamstring is the most pissed off and my foot feels like a giant bruise. I was super surprised that in my first run back, my foot behaved, but I was sore all over like I had been in a car wreck. You know me, I don't do anything halfway and am just glad I can still move and run and lift even if I am sore.
To end, we finally got our trees up and I am fully in the spirit! All but one of the presents I have ordered have made it here which is a miracle as a couple got delayed. Even if the one doesn't make it, I have a picture I can wrap up of the present, and it's just for Tony anyway. Tony still wants to get Andrew something just from him and he's thinking it may be a bass guitar. The trees weren't exactly what we wanted as we got two tall skinny trees last time that fit perfectly in front of our windows, but these will do. They are kind of scraggly, but I am glad we could give them a good home.
Sunday, December 7, 2025
On the mat
First, I am going to talk some girl talk. If that offends you, and you don't want to read it, skip down a paragraph. You have been officially warned. After several months of no period, it's back and it's horrible. I've had several days of cramps and bleeding with no end in sight. I had really thought maybe I was done, but I hear this is part of the process. 0 out of 5 stars. Do not recommend. At least I get to use my new period panties that I got on black Friday sales right???
Okay off of women's stuff. We had a big week of wrestling. Andrew made weight and then lost his wrestle off, so he had to wrestle 165 junior varsity and only got one match in this week's dual. He looked a little intimidated in the video that was sent to me, but I had another mom send me several photos and he had a very determined face on the entire time.
I had to miss yet again due to my experiment which I will talk about later. I hate that I have missed so many football and wrestling games/matches, but my job pays really well, and overtime is essential right now as I pay for Christmas presents and our trip to Tulsa.
We also had a tournament this weekend at Junction City. For some reason, the coaches moved the varsity 165 kid up to 180 and had Andrew wrestling Varsity. I first thought that maybe the kid didn't make weight, but he did so who knows. I'm not one to complain about his coaches as he loves them, but I'm just not impressed with them this year. It was a four-mat tournament, and they had to multiple times be told what mat to go to by us in the stands, and when and then half the time when they were at the right mat, they were looking at their phones or just staring at the ground. Sigh. I just hope Andrew sticks around for high school wrestling. The new coach they just hired is really, really good and I hope Andrew will stay and get coached by him. I don't see a ton of value in Andrew standing on the side lines in football, but I do see a ton of value of him wrestling JV in high school.
Andrew had two matches with his first match being really, really good even if I missed the whole first period. They had announced that all varsity matches would be on mat one and two, so I wasn't even paying attention to mat 3 until I looked up and saw him already wrestling. He worked his ass off, almost got a pin, but got pinned in the third period. I'll take it. He tried so hard and never gave up and that's all I've ever asked for. He even executed a Peterson roll, a move he'd been working on in practice. We have one more tournament and I'm excited for him to wrestle off for his position and possibly finish the season strong.
While I can't give specifics of my job, I can say that even though my project is not front and center for the company right now, it's nevertheless very important and I am hugely stressed about it. My boss can't give her full attention to it for many reasons out of her control, and that's very frustrating being the person performing the experiment. I've been working on this experiment for months and I am going to be very upset if they scrap everything I have done. It's been lots of super long days and weekends and I don't want it to be for nothing. Yes, I still get paid for what I've done, but it's still very frustrating especially when I've been voicing my concerns to deaf ears. I've had lots of 3 am wake up anxiety attacks. We just had yet another very key individual leave in our company due to not being heard and I'm scared. I don't like not being heard and that's what has been happening. Sigh. I wanted to retire in this job, and I hope that I can, but the words that the RD is the first department to go really scares me. Everyone else is working on the main project and I feel like I'm on an island doing my own thing. Enough whining and enough panic attacks.
Only two runs and two work outs, but overall, I got enough done this week with all that was going on. My lifting was quality and I'm seeing huge gains even with knocking back to two lifting days a week. I'll take it and I have one happy Ollie to get out and run. She also celebrated her 2nd birthday this week and I can't believe she's two already.
Have a great week y'all! Two and a half more weeks till a nice long break! We've got this!
Sunday, November 30, 2025
Of course I would
Of course, I would get whatever Andrew had even though they said it wasn't contagious. That's what moms do right? I started getting a sore throat Sunday night and even with the help of my elderberry immunity stuff, I still came down hard Monday with whatever this is. I seriously felt like someone had taken a wire brush and used in on my throat. I had to make it through three days of work before I got a break. I had very important experiments all week and even had to go in for an hour Thanksgiving and the day after. After having several experiments fail due to media issues that we still aren't sure what happened, I am happy to say that two of my experiments worked and mentally I needed that. Ah the life of a scientist. A whole lot of failure and a tiny bit of success thrown in to make you keep going.
For my mental health, I needed some work out and run time. This week has been amazing weatherwise for running. Instead of being stupid and training through, I took the time off, rested, and tried to get better. Not going to lie, it killed me inside, but also, I wanted this mess to go away as quickly as possible.
I had planned on either going to Manhattan Thanksgiving morning and running the 5K there or doing one at home with miss Ollie. Neither happened thanks to being sick, but Ollie got lots of outside time thanks to the amazing weather. She may love running, but chasing squirrels in the backyard comes in a close second. She also loves her dad very much thank you. She loves to be held like this and cuddled like a baby but only by dad. She is the weirdest dog I have ever had.
We had a pretty uneventful Thanksgiving with all the usual food. It was just the three of us and we will have leftovers for days. I have so much to be thankful for! I did get lots of black Friday deals online and am done with Christmas shopping early this year other than some small stocking stuffers. Check out my Facebook page at Running with Reds for great deals that extend till the beginning of December and beyond. Some of my favorites are Oiselle, Shokz, Knix undies, Stunt Puppy, Gypsy runner, and our local running store.
Towards the end of the week, the sickness seemed to lessen its hold on me just a tiny bit. While I did get end of the month book work done and lots of computer stuff done that I needed to do, I was getting a bit stir crazy. I had lifted at the beginning of the week which takes care of my one lift a week minimum streak I've been doing since May, but I wanted more. I tried a leg work out Friday night with the promise that If I felt bad, I would stop and I made it through just fine. I also did a PUSH work out Saturday and again, felt pretty good. We had brief periods of snow and horrible winds all day. Sunday and I had decided if there was no ice that I would try and get a run done.
Ollie had been waiting patiently, and I woke up feeling good and ready to try. It was feels like 8 F so perfect running weather for us. I asked if Tony could pick us up out by the feedlot instead of doing an out and back so that we could maybe see eagles. I had gone out the day before and they were out.
Have a great week y'all! The final push to Christmas break as begun and I can't wait for another chunk of time off! I didn't realize how much mentally I needed this big break and I do feel very refreshed and ready to tackle the next three weeks of school/work/wrestling/life.



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