Good to be back in Kansas for a while. Leaving again soon for round 3 of 4 and glad to be almost done with these trips!
Join me as I journey through life as a mommy to a little red headed boy and four red australian shepherds and wife to an awesome hubby who can't say No. My addictions include distance running and training dogs (specifically in dog agility) and my job is in science so expect a dose of a little bit of all of these things. Running with reds is how I keep my sanity:)
Sunday, January 26, 2025
She's home
Monday, January 20, 2025
Back in the great white north
Hello from Wisconsin again! Back for round number 2 of four. Am writing this on the first day we are here. Hoping this time goes a little smoother and that the changes we made from the first time help and don't hinder. We only have three people versus 4. TBD :)
As the week went on, it was apparent that we learned a lot from the last trip and were well prepared for what we needed to do. I love it when a plan comes together. We were one unit and got a lot done very efficiently, even with very bad news that our company let go of four of our friends back home. We cried and drank beer and then cried some more and soldiered on. Industry is a cruel mistress, and this kind of stuff is the very reason I have avoided it as a career. They live on profit (much like our small business does) and decisions about not being profitable are made swiftly.
I have to stay positive and keep my head up and know that I have value and what I am doing is very important. The company needs me and the skill set I have, and my salary is not enough to break their profits. I also can't worry about what I can't control. Circle of control. Look at me using my therapy. My coworkers were very upset, and I tried to calm their fears. It's hard in this economy and this job market. There are virtually no scientist jobs available right now in our area and we all have either families or big things coming up in our lives, all requiring financial stability.
We had some free time on Saturday afternoon and got to the town of New Glarus. This is where the brewery is located, but it was closed to tours :( They had a smaller tasting room with a gift shop, so we headed over there and had a fun time shopping. I wished we had more room in the car, because I would have gotten some beer to bring back, but our car was full to the brim. I fell in love with the Belgian Red and I feel like next time, I want to go back and get a six pack to take home. This would be the PERFECT summer beer. We got to eat downtown in a little pub and spend time with Heather's parents. It was very nice to get away from the house from a bit because we are stuck in there constantly taking our measurements.
Another successful trip in the books and looking forward to another trip in February! We joked with the little bar and grill down the road that we eat at every night that they needed to have a couple or threesome night for the upcoming day of love, and while they aren't doing valentines day stuff, they said they would make us a little heart shaped pizza and light us a candle. I can't wait! I also finally got to the point where I could get off of all of my meds for my Flu adventure, but my ribs are still super painful, and any cough or sneeze kills me. I know that will take time, but I do hope to at least get back to running this next week.
Have a great week y'all!
Monday, January 13, 2025
Recovering....slowly
This week has been super tough due to the sudden loss of my bestest girl and the fact that I am still battling this illness. I had been getting better and then suddenly I took a turn for the worse. I figured it was from constant crying and all of the snot that comes with that, but I was also worried about secondary infections as well. My lungs sounded good according to my doctor, but she did want me on 24/7 meds so we could try and get this over with. I had started coughing at night constantly so badly that I had injured my ribs. I had either pulled a muscle in my chest wall or I had separated the cartilage, they weren't sure. I changed up my routine and started on the Mucinex DM every 12 hours no matter what and got back on the Tessalon pearls. I have to get better before we head back to Wisconsin. I can't keep the entire house up all night with my barking.
I am happy to say in writing this second half today on Sunday that a whole week of 24/7 Mucinex DM and Tessalon pearls has allowed me to get some good sleep and feel so much better. Saturday I finally felt like a human and Sunday I finally got out of the house for a bit because I actually wanted to. I've honestly only gone to work because I had 0 PTO, and I didn't want to use my only float day for being sick. I am still coughing, but not as much, and my rib while still incredible sore, are feeling like they are finally healing.
Monday, January 6, 2025
Loss
A little update if you will. If you remember from my last blog post, a coworker gifted me the flu for Christmas. While I wish she had stayed home since she knew she was sick, another coworker had worked an entire week sick while we were in Wisconsin and probably got her sick to start this all off. I'm a little frustrated but also, I understand. Let me explain. It's weird, I've never worked a job that didn't have sick leave and very little PTO. Most of us have kids and lives and we live on the edge of our PTO. It's the system and it makes me mad that we are forced to work sick which then infects everyone around us. I try and always be considerate and mask up if I think I am sick, but others aren't as considerate. Sigh. It's a broke system and I have no clue how to fix it. Our boss has a laptop we can take home so we can work from home if needed, but sometimes you are so sick that work isn't going to happen or sometimes your job doesn't allow for work from home kind of work.
As I sit here on day 13 of this mess, I do feel like I am turning a corner. My cough is very productive and not as deep. I am finally getting quality sleep at night. I feel my energy coming back. Of course, we are in a blizzard right now so even if I wanted to get out and run, there is no way I could. I was hoping to get a week of working out and running in before we head back to Wisconsin for another week of being homebound thanks to the experiment we are doing. That may or may not happen thanks to this big snowstorm. So much for ending December strong and starting out January equally as strong. This is week four of no working out, no running for me and I am mentally going insane. Part of me feels like a huge failure but then the other part of me realizes that my job and my job getting me sick is the reason for all of this and that I just need to chill. I've never taken this much time off and maybe it isn't the end of the world for my body. Again, while it will suck to start back, running is always there for me and will be waiting for me when I return.
To close, we lost stella today. It was very, very sudden. I knew that she was starting to have issues, but I had no clue that this would be the end for her. She had been having little seizures here and there, nothing major, but still enough to worry about. They were always triggered by either excitement or medication. I had made the decision we were done with heart worm meds as those seemed to trigger her more than anything. Today while I was typing on my computer, I heard her cough, and she went down hard. I screamed for the boys since I had to grab ollie and keep her off of stella while she was seizing. The rest of the day she was either out of it or having more seizures. Of course, we were snowed in with over a foot of snow outside and huge drifts. I am lucky that I have amazing vets, and we talked back and forth as to possibly what was going on. In the end, we made the very hard decision to let her go peacefully as she was sleeping. I honestly thought she had passed several times during the day so to have most of the day holding her and loving on her was a blessing.
Tony and I are gutted. She lived life HUGE from the minute she was born. She came into this world being a force to be reckoned with and that never stopped. We actually watched her be born on camera and missed our agility class that night. She was my shadow till the very end. The hole in my heart is almost my entire heart and I don't know how I am going to get through this. Please pray for peace for Tony and I. We have now lost Miller, Harley, Deuce and Stella and all of their deaths have really been hard for us. It's part of owning a pet, a part that I really, really hate. You always wrestle with did I make the decision too soon or not soon enough. Could we have done tests to figure out what the cause was or did we even want to know the answer. She had lots of old lady lumps, and some were not in great spots and or were inoperable due to blood flow. She in recent years had issues with growing tumors on her eye lids and since that time her eyes had always had issues and weeped. Her allergies had come to the point where the meds were at their highest level and she still wasn't seeing any comfort and was having medicated baths, which she hated, to try and help with the itch. There were lots of little things adding up, but she had such a great quality of life otherwise. Hell, I bet she still could have run at least a mile a few times a week. I will probably write a separate blog post just about her life and how she lived it. I am crying and am so glad I had the day off of work today to process all of this. She was a great dog and will be missed by Tony and I greatly. Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers.
Have a great week and think of me. I am not okay, but I hopefully will be someday.
Sunday, January 5, 2025
Good bye 2024!
As I read back over my goodbye to 2023 posts, I was met with a wave of gratitude. 2023 was a really not so great year for us and to look back on 2024 and see all of the progress, all of the happiness we had, all the fun trips and the racing successes, well heck, I just couldn't stop smiling. I had a few goals for myself that I met and then some. While my running isn't where it needs to be according to my brain, it's been mostly steady. I was able to work out twice a week and mostly once a week for a good chunk of the year doing classes for strength, something that I have struggled with for years. While wrestling and football derailed that, I am looking forward to chugging back into the new year and getting back to my strength training. I love the way my body looks when I am doing strength and while I am not prepared to really start on a weight loss journey, I am prepared to get back to working out and running on a regular basis. I also took control of my anxiety and did some hard but necessary work with my therapist. I am happy to say that I am down to once a month and while I do miss our weekly meetings, I am enjoying having the tools I need to get through some tough stuff. I've had several people notice that I have changed and for the better.
Just to recap the fun we had this year; Andrew and I took a trip to Chicago just him and I and had a yes trip. Thanks to my ample bonus (that I may or may not get this year) we were able to do whatever we wanted whenever. We started out each day researching what we might want to do, purchasing tickets, figuring out how to get there, and then going. It was the best trip of my life, and I loved sharing Chicago with Andrew. Most days we walked over 10 miles, and we made so many great memories. We also attended two Royals games and had a blast.
For racing, we traveled to race in Minnesota, Illinois, and Tulsa in a brand-new class to Andrew. We slowly saw Andrew start believing in himself and started seeing successes along the way. My favorite two races of the year were in Topeka where Andrew made lots of passes in a stacked heavy Honda class and ended up finishing second against some amazing and older Minnesota and Tulsa drivers AND when he came back from being wrecked to finish 3rd in Tulsa at the Helt Belt races. While his local classes were small, it was SO much fun to see him gain confidence, learn how to pass quickly, complete two car passes, and not let kids push him around or intimidate him. I know we have a long way to go, but I am SO super excited to see how he races in 2025. I hope we get to at least do the All-American Clash again and maybe get a NASCAR national race or two. This year is all about Andrew and racing and I am HERE.FOR.IT!
Let's go 2025! I love numbers divisible by 5 so this is going to be a great year! No goals this year, just lots of family time, racing, and low drama. My give a F broke a while ago and I hope it stays out of commission. Looking forward to working hard for my racing club even if I am not a board member, to helping with some women's wrestling events, and to spending time with good friends. I want to love hard, have fun, and enjoy what time I have left with my kiddo as a kiddo. They grow up too quickly and i want to soak all of this in while I can.
Have a great year y'all! Make some goals, make some resolutions, just do your thang, whatever that looks like for you!